ALBUQUERQUE, N.M. -- In a game of inches, none may mean more to Mike Locksley than the ones he didn't take Sept. 20. The first-year New Mexico coach was all but out the door following a heated altercation with wide receivers coach J.B. Gerald, when, he said, he "sort of lost it." Those inches may wind up costing him everything.
"If I had that moment back ... ," Locksley said to FanHouse in his office Tuesday night. "I was literally walking out the door because I knew I was getting heated and it kept going back and forth. I'm walking out the door and I look over and another word was said and it was set off."
In that moment, he grabbed Gerald, an assistant who had followed him halfway across the country from Illinois. An altercation ensued. When the dust cleared all that was certain was that Gerald had a split lip. And two coaching careers were beginning to unravel, the coda to an argument from earlier in the day, an argument with a decade of history.
Locksley is in jeopardy of losing his job in his first season as head coach and Gerald, in his first season as a full-time assistant, may be out of coaching permanently.
According to multiple sources who were present Sept. 20, the disagreement began during practice, over an argument about the wide receivers' performance during the 37-13 loss to Air Force the previous day. Locksley let his young assistant have it.
Instead of taking the pointed criticism from his boss and moving on, Gerald fired back.
Gerald told Locksley that not even his mother talks to him that way. Locksley, witnesses said, fired back that his mother wasn't paying Gerald $90,000 a year.
A back-and-forth exchange ensued and both coaches clung to the last word. According to a police report filed by Gerald, Locksley became angry and approached Gerald in an aggressive manner. Gerald told Locksley that not even his mother talks to him that way. Locksley, witnesses said, fired back that his mother wasn't paying Gerald $90,000 a year.
Then after all the harsh words, it was a simple "Whatever" from Gerald that brought Locksley back into the room after he had begun to leave.
Suddenly, Locksley grabbed Gerald by the collar before the other coaches could separate them. Gerald says he was punched in the mouth; the responding officer acknowledged a split lip.
Locksley doesn't dispute grabbing Gerald. He does, however, deny a punch was thrown. Whatever, both men's careers likely changed that day. Gerald has been on paid leave since the incident. Locksley, who is off to an 0-4 start, faces possible termination from his approximately $750,000 a year job after the university's human resources department opened up an investigation Tuesday.
"I wish I had made a different decision," Locksley said. "I got caught up in the moment, but that should never have happened."
As a coach, the 39-year-old Locksley seems far more interested in making sure his point is understood on the field than he is about the delivery. He grilled Gerald in front the players, fellow coaches, media and others. Having a head coach chastise assistants on the field, while awkward and potentially embarrassing, is not uncommon.
What happened next was.
Gerald, a 27-year-old, first-year, full-time assistant, shouted at his head coach with the same type of profanity-laced language he had just absorbed. The exchange eventually died down, but picked back up as practice wound down and Gerald was walking to meet an awaiting reporter.
Locksley declined to discuss the specifics of either exchange."In all of my years around here, I had never seen anything like that," said an athletic department source, who wished not to be identified. "It was quite an exchange."
That type of disrespect could have gotten Gerald dismissed, but it didn't because of the history the two share that goes back more than 10 years. Locksley has known the young coach since his days as an assistant coach at Maryland when Gerald was a high school student at DuVal High School in Lanham, Md. Locksley successfully recruited Gerald's best friend, Madieu Williams, to play for the Terps; Gerald went on to play at Colgate.
Years later, Locksley and Gerald became reacquainted as Gerald looked to break into the coaching profession as a graduate assistant at Penn State. At Williams' urging, Locksley became a friend and mentor to Gerald, listening to his desires to speed up his career and offering advice.
Locksley, who by then was the offensive coordinator at Illinois, eventually had an opening for an offensive quality control coach two years ago and offered the job to Gerald, who had spent five years working in various roles on the football staff at Penn State. Gerald worked at Illinois on the staff of Ron Zook for a season before Locksley got the opportunity to be the head coach at New Mexico.
Locksley says because he respected Gerald's skills as a coach and the trust was there, he offered Gerald the position of receivers coach/recruiting coordinator, a highly unusual opportunity for a coach with no full-time experience.
"It was definitely an established relationship. J.B. and I were close," Locksley said. "As I've said, I saw a lot of me in him as a young coach. When I look back, maybe I was too hard on him in that I was being demanding trying to teach him how to do it."
Certainly the risk Locksley took on with a young unproven coach doesn't seem worth it now.
"I saw a lot of me in him as a young coach. When I look back, maybe I was too hard on him.
-- Mike Locksley"
"I thought because of our relationship that we may be able to work through it," said Locksley, who is also dealing with an EEOC complaint of sexual harassment and age discrimination filed by former 54-year-old office worker, Sylvia Lopez. "Unfortunately it's happened, it should never have happened. But I also know in this business, I've been a part of where it has happened and guys understand it's like family sometimes.
"We work long hours, the frustration of losing, the long hours. I have to admit I had a lot on my plate, especially with the other incident. Things were going on and it was kind of a buildup. I lost it. You never make decisions out of frustration. That's what it boiled down to."
The end result is both coaches' futures are in doubt. The local media has grilled Locksley, saying this latest incident is further proof he isn't ready to be a head coach of an FBS program. The radio sports call-in shows and message boards have been even harsher with most arguments boiling down to this question: Where else could a boss punch his employee and still keep his job?
"Some people think he should have been suspended a game or two, some people think the reprimand was enough and then you have a couple people that are kind of out there, he should be fired," said Leeroy Lucero, who co-hosts a postgame radio show in Albuquerque as well as writes for the theredmenace.com. "I don't believe the majority want to see him fired, but there are a couple vocal people that do."
As much trouble as Locksley's career may be in, Gerald's could be in more. A few former and current head coaches have said privately that Gerald violated trust by going to police first without trying to have the dispute handled internally.
Gerald, however, is just a dissertation short of receiving a PhD. in educational leadership from Penn State so his future could be outside of coaching.
He has hinted he may want to return to New Mexico, where the door has been left open. Gerald told FanHouse in a brief conversation Tuesday night that he was considering returning to his job, therefore he did not wish to discuss the ordeal in the media.
But in this world of high-pressure, high-stakes athletics, time is ticking on a possible return to the Lobos staff. Graduate assistant Aaron Moorehead has taken over coaching receivers in Gerald's absence.
"We'd like to have J.B. back as part of the staff," New Mexico athletic director Paul Krebs told FanHouse. "We're basically at a point where he is either going to have to come back or we are going to have to put him on reassignment to another area. We are at a point where we need to know which way is he going to go."
Krebs would certainly like to see Locksley be given more time, but admits that may be out of his hands. Depending on what the human resources department finds in its investigation of the ordeal, Locksley could be either suspended or fired. The school conduct code for employees certainly seems to support termination for work place violence. A firing with cause would likely mean Locksley's salary ends on the last day of his employment with the university.
So far Gerald hasn't talked to anyone beyond filing the police report and to this point has declined to press charges against Locksley.
Krebs placed a letter of reprimand in Locksley's file on Monday, but most believe that was a mere slap on the wrist. The final decision on punishment will likely come from the president's office.
"As we stand here today is his job in jeopardy? No," Krebs said. "Based on what I know, what I've seen and what I continue to see, his job is not in jeopardy. But I think it's important to say this is a mistake that can't happen again. It's a mistake he needs to learn from and if he has the kind of leadership skills that I think he has, he will use this as a springboard and he will look back on it one day and remember the struggle of year one.
"But he's got to learn from it and move forward and there can't be no repetition."
The word pressure had been thrown around quite a bit to perhaps explain the emotion that could have led to the blowup Sept. 20. Fans and alumni have already been down on Locksley and his staff after a lackluster showing in the first four games of the regime, which includes troubling losses to Tulsa, Air Force and in-state rival New Mexico State in addition to defeat against Texas A&M in the season opener. New Mexico travels to Lubbock, Texas, this weekend to take on Texas Tech.
Locksley inherited just three returning starters on defense from last year's 4-8 squad, and openly admits his best players are sophomores and redshirt freshmen. Four games in, it's obvious the quick fix Lobo fans hoped for isn't going to happen.
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"We probably didn't prepare the community for the rebuilding job that awaited him," Krebs admits. "I think there was expectation that we had enough talent that he was going to come in and make this conversion to a new scheme on offense and defense and kind of get back to some of the better years (former coach Rocky Long) had.
"But the reality is we were a 4-8 team ... and our talent really has not fit this scheme. So we are really going through a growing process, probably more traumatic than our community realizes. I think they were a little bit prepared for what's happened."
At least one source with intimate knowledge of the New Mexico program, however, pinpoints the inexperience of Locksley's staff, especially on offense, for some of the struggles.
In addition to Gerald, centers and guards coach Mike Degory and quarterbacks coach Tee Martin, the former national championship quarterback at Tennessee, are in their first seasons as full-time assistant coaches at the FBS level. Offensive tackles and tight ends coach Cheston Blackshere spent the previous three years at Columbia University after spending 2005 working as Locksley's graduate assistant at Illinois.
The Lobos rank 118th out of 120 schools in total offense after producing just 262.0 yards of offense per game and only five offensive touchdowns in the first four games.
"There is one thing to bring in guys you trust, but at this level you have to have experienced coaches," said a coach with knowledge of the situation. "You can maybe get away with one inexperienced coach but not four at such critical positions."
Krebs defends his coach and the staff he put together.
"I believe in the guy," he said. "I think he has the makings of a great head coach, I think he is a good teacher, he's surrounded himself with good stuff, they are recruiting well. I like the accountability they are instilling in the program; I like the culture change they are instilling.
"But when you are 0-4 and you've had these marks, people are questioning his leadership and I understand that. I think we have to hold tight and look forward to better days."
The question is whether Locksley will be around to enjoy them. Krebs certainly seems to hope so.
Should Locksley fail so quickly and with so much controversy, it's unlikely he would get another head coaching shot anytime soon.
"He needs a champion. Nobody is taking his side in this," Krebs said. "The local press is beating him in this. I think the guy has a chance to be a great head coach. I think he's got a lot of skill. It needs some refinement but he's got a lot of ability. He knows this is his shot. I want to make sure he is given a fair shot, he's given a fair chance to succeed like I think he can.
"Our struggles have compounded some mistakes he's made, probably heightened the tension if you will."
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This hothead is making 750,000 a year, almost double the salary of POTUS. Make an anger management course mandatory before he can get his severance check - maybe leave it to his next employer to teach him some people handling skills. I've worked for idiots like this, even in the Dairy business, so it's not just sports that promote people above their level of competence. Get him out of there before he does something worse to his next victim.
Good read.
I remember once I had a boss who was loud and we would argue regularly. One time we were going at it hot and heavy and then he turned to walk out of the room. He stopped and yelled at me to not slam the door ( I used to do that from time to time to get one last ditch pitch in lol). He walked out and I walked over and closed the door real soft and quiet. He turned to come back in, I suppose to have one at it with me. He turned and walked right into the closed door.
This hothead is making 750,000 a year, almost double the salary of POTUS
He is having a better year
I say give them both another chance. I could understand termination if it was actually workplace violence that occurred, but a push and a punch hardly fall into the violent category. It certainly would be grounds for termination if it happened again, but I'd bet it wouldn't.
There is no excuse for violence in the workplace, no matter how hot the argument gets.
The guy committed assualt.
He should be shitcanned, fined, and be forced to attend anger management classes.
To Ted...if Coach Locksley is sh*tcanned, as you suggest...what is the point of fining him and requiring him to attend anger management classes AFTER his termination? Administering a fine and other corrective action are generally administered in lieu of termination. That would be like giving him the firing squad AND tranferring him to the front lines in the military.
What a bunch of hoopla over nothing. The two men have known one another and they had a fight. Seems they are willing to let it go, so should the media. If New Mexico was a winning team, no one would say a damn thing. Move on and report some real sports news. Remember Indiana's Bobby Knight and his escapades? He would slap his players around, throw chairs, berate the fans, etc. and they tolerated his rage for years. Why? Because he won games! Double standard doesn't begin to describe it.
I'm a sports psychologist and it continually confounds me how persons such as this highly paid head coach can jepordize their entire careers in favor of winning petty arguments. When interviewing these coaches, I have found one statement is consistant and that is, "...something came over me and I just lost it." Many jobs in our society barely pay above minimum wage and yet these workers are subject to background checks and drug testing. With an annual salary of $750,000, the university athletic department needs to look into the past behavior and current condition of these coaches. Most of the time, the pattern has already been established, but, overlooked in favor the ability to provide wins which relate to money for the school. Solid leadership is difficult at any level, sports or administration ...... what kind of example is this for the student/athletes.
Has this law breaker been arrested or fired yet?
This article was way too long. Could have told the story in half the space
The Albuquerque sports talk shows are a joke. They are nothing more then a male version of the View! I've learned more from this story, then 4 days of listening to these fools. The fact is, two friends got in a scuffle, and they just happened to work with each other. I would be willing to bet, more then half the collages in the nation have had something like this happen. The only differance, they handled it like men, rather then going to the police. For all of you calling for him to be fired, go back to your local Starbucks and drink your frapuccino. The next thing you know you'll be demanding they change the rules of football to flag football.
A cheap shot? WHAT A SHOCK! Fire him immediately and he should never coach again anywhere.
Where does it say it was a cheap shot? Believe me, if the coach actually hit him, he'd be in the hospital, and then we would have a REAL story. He has a small cut inside of his mouth? I've done that eating peanuts at a football game for crying out loud. Now go back to watching Nancy Grace silly boy.
Didn't know who the coaches were but couldn't figure out what could have possibly been said that would cause a man in that position to act like he did. Then I saw the picture. Oh. Okay, no further explanation needed. The explanation? Talk about yo' mama and a punch is thrown. You want to avoid stereotyping in these cases but you can't
Dennis,
Not sure what planet you are from but for some reason you are the only person who gets IT. These two guys are friends and the blow up was really about their friendship. It just so happen to take place at work. Locksley has bent over backwards for Gerald and put him in a position most coaches wouldn't all on the strength of a personal relationship that goes back 10 years or more. Should Locksley had ever become physical with the guy? No. But I don't think the two have these issues if it weren't for the personal relationship they've had. There is a belief you should never hire your friends or family. Here is proof why you shouldn't. I think if this coach had put his hands on almost any of his other assistants there might be more need for concern. In reporting this story from all sides, what I found is that essentially this was two brothers who got into a tussling match. The little brother lost and reacted out of anger instead of thinking things through. We would we be talking or writing about this had Bob Stoops put Mike Stoops in a headlock one night in the office? I think not.
Having spent some time in Albuquerque, my sense is that there are a lot of people there who may not have ever wanted Locksley in as the head coach. This situation and the EEOC claim may be providing convenient excuses for some. Locksley may very well end up losing his job in his first season, but it won't be over whether or not he punched an assistant coach. And if he is, the Lobos faithful will probably find that the rebuilding project there will be much longer.
I've worked for people like that. Mostly while in the military. The older I got the more I realized I don't have to put up with it. After all, I was looking for a job when I started working there. These days I don't put up with temper tantrums. Even my ex talks civil to me on the phone. She discovered I could just push to off button and leave her yelling at nothing.
This is what I have learned from this article as well as others, Locksley is using the excuse of “feeling the pressure” as a “justification” for his actions; these are the words of a man with no character or integrity. Taking responsibility for our actions does not include excuses. You did assault the assistant coach, a member of your staff. “Locksley said the confrontation was no worse than getting in a fight with one of his brothers.” Unbelievable! What if Locksley had hit President Schmidly or Krebs in the mouth? Would we be talking about understanding and looking into it? NO, so what is the difference? No coach, teacher or staff person should, ever, use any kind of violence against anyone. It is not different because he is the head coach. The message that it sends to our student/athletes is that it’s okay to assault someone if you are stressed, tired or angry, First and foremost, UNM is a university where people are expected to behave like civilized human beings. We all should be setting good examples and instill morality in our children.
It is the FOOL that does not realize or acknowledge the issue is here is ASSAULT! It happened in the workplace; there are campus policies on acts of violence which is 0 tolerance and assault or battery on another person is grounds for suspension and even termination. Which man has demonstrated more mental self-discipline? But which man got sent home after the so-called “altercation?” The assistant coach should press charges because he was assaulted; he was smart not to retaliate and risk his job. It was the professional thing to do when he reported the incident to the police, that's what you do when a crime has been committed. Locksley is lucky that he was not arrested.
People in the same profession and that travel in some of the same circles are often friends. That does not give anyone the right to attack someone if they are stressed or upset; be it friend or foe. Interesting to note that UNM’s head football coach has only the minimum education of a bachelor’s degree. The assistant he struck in the face is a dissertation away from a Penn State PhD. Coach Locksley must have problems fostering a cooperative work environment with assistants whose graduate work is from a big 10 school while he stopped with a Bachelors from Towson University. It sounds like the assistant has a lot more going for him than some people want too let on. Oh, by the way which man is more likely to encourage academic work beyond bachelors for his student athletes? If this had happened outside the workplace it still would be assault and it is inexcusable. A verbal reprimand, a letter in his personnel file is a joke; a clear message has to be sent, that this sort of behavior will not be tolerated.
Sure, Locksley bent over backwards for Gerald by viciously attacking him. I guess if you’ve known someone long enough it’s okay to attack them. (Sarcasm) Why is it that the victim Gerald, was sent home on administrative leave when the perpetrator Locksley, has a talk with the Athletics Director Krebs (who is also a Vice President)? Can we spell C-O-R-R-U-P-T-I-O-N, their words were that, “we would welcome him back” makes it seem like the assistant coach Gerald was the wrong doer. In the real world if an employee strikes another employee he is fired on the spot. In the real world that company could not afford the repercussion such as law suit or poor press. Krebs should fire Locksley or step down regardless if the Lobo’s record is 0-4 or not. Do you think if Locksley punched Krebs, would Krebs fire him? Simple cut and dry fire him or step down!
Oh yeah, by the way, this out of control, hothead makes $750,000 a year plus bonuses