This Memorial Day you, the football fan, will probably have at least a passing thought or two about Pat Tillman (pictured right), the former Arizona State and Arizona Cardinals linebacker and safety. You know his story. In the wake of the 9/11 attacks, he left a comfortable life to join the US Army's 2nd Ranger Battalion, was sent to Afghanistan, and died in a friendly fire incident, one of those horrible ripples of war. We all thought Tillman was a hero when he walked away from NFL fame and money to serve his country. When he paid the ultimate price for placing himself in harm's way, we had no idea how to react. "Thank you" seems so weak in the face of such a sacrifice.
Tillman may be the most recent example of a football player trading gridiron glory for the unglamorous life of a soldier, but he's hardly the only one.
Bob Kalsu was an offensive lineman for the Oklahoma Sooners and Buffalo Bills. He had taken part in ROTC during college. After his promising rookie season in 1968, he was sent to Vietnam as part of his military obligation. He was killed in action on July 21, 1970.
Vietnam also claimed the life of Don Holleder, an All-American end and quarterback on Red Blaik's Army football team in the mid-1950s. Holleder was part of the last generation to play on both sides of the ball. A helicopter pilot, he was killed by a sniper while evacuating some ambushed soldiers during the Battle of Ong Thanh in October 1967.
World War II claimed more football players than I could possibly do justice to here, but don't forget Nile Kinnick, the only Heisman trophy winner to die in military service. Kinnick died in 1943 when his airplane lost its oil while he was on a training flight. His family at first refused to allow the University of Iowa to rename its football stadium after him, finally relenting after almost 30 years.
Remember all these people, and when you're done remembering them, promise me this: Take a moment to remember all the men and women who weren't great athletes, who were barely known even in their home towns, who might not even have been famous in their own houses, but nonetheless gave the same thing these football players gave. Everything. Everything they had and everything they were.
And to all the veterans reading this, I thank you. Although, as I said, "thank you" barely seems adequate.




















Reader Comments (Page 1 of 1)
5-25-2009 @ 12:24PM
Yohncc said...
Thank you, Mark.
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5-25-2009 @ 12:32PM
Ted said...
Tillman - A TRUE AMERICAN HERO!
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5-25-2009 @ 12:28PM
Steve said...
Great article i live in Ireland and i remember those who have paid the ultimate price here and abroad let it be in Afganistan, Iraq, Seara Leone, Chad or any overseas forces serving all over the world..What a price to pay..Regards to all still serving overseas..Steve Dublin Ireland
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5-25-2009 @ 12:30PM
Ted said...
Mark you are correct. They are all heroes!
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5-26-2009 @ 4:04AM
Steve said...
Great comment and never a more true word spoken..To all still serving overseas from all Nations Stay safe ...Best Regards Steve Dublin Ireland
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5-25-2009 @ 1:07PM
k2k78 said...
Pat Tillman your are the TRUE AMERICAN HERO!!
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5-26-2009 @ 1:00AM
JUDITH said...
i had a lot of buddy,s die all kinds of guys .so this day means something for me ,and a lot of other guys ,not cook outs and all that crap.
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5-26-2009 @ 4:03AM
Steve said...
Post6 Everybody has lost someone let it be through war or any other way and one thing is for sure the pain still hurts so show some respect to all...
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5-26-2009 @ 9:37AM
Beverly said...
TO MARK HASTY:............. Thank You so very much for a beautiful article! This is probably the best one I have read or heard of in several years as Memorial Day approached.
Sad, but too many people especially our younger generation thinks the ONLY thing Memorial Day means is a backyard barbecue, picnic, opening of the local pool, lake or beach or for those so vain...wearing white shoes!
This country needs to get back to basics and the schools, churches and parents need to start teaching their children why we celebrate days like this, Labor Day, Independence Day (NO, not the movie with Will Smith), Flag Day etc! America is losing it's grip on it's history and all anyone cares about anymore is what new high tech gadgets are out there.
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5-26-2009 @ 11:31AM
loves1ck said...
I'm a Iraqi Freedom veteran, and was a combat medic, working the Baghdad ER... and I knew more soldiers who sacrificed, all strangers, than I can remember.
The idea of Memorial Day being for 'fun and sun', cookouts and parties and an excuse for a long weekend, is painful and insulting now - and I thank you, Mark, for taking time this memorial day to give tribute to my fallen brothers.
It's nice that people still remember the fight. It's nicer that people remember the toll.
Memorial Day is a day of memories, of mourning, not of celebration. Thank you, Mark.
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5-26-2009 @ 5:45PM
wldthang59 said...
I did my fun in the sun this weekend, but as a medically retired Seargent in the US Army, i did spend some time in reflecting on the sacrifice our young men and women have given for our freedom. I salute everyone of them. God Bless America!!
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5-26-2009 @ 6:52PM
mileyhav said...
I am only an 8th grader, but I greatly respect everything the men and women, past and present, do for our country. Regardless of rank, race , or religion, every man and woman of the US armed forces deserves a lot more respect than they recieve. I am the sibling of a Major in the army who is currently serving in Afghanistan, and i know what it is like over there (not as well as those who served in a forward zone) but i know enough to show these men and women the respect they deserve.
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